hobbies can’t be gatekept by certain groups. men are welcome to take up knitting or baking even though they’re traditionally feminine hobbies. and if women liking the same hobby as you automatically makes you dislike it— it just means you hate women.
“I can’t sexualise women in these spaces now because there’s women here.”
What he also means, is women joined the spaces now society has started judging people less. A lot of hobbies have become less gendered because a lot of people have the mindset of just letting people be themselves.
Lol, when they push out women from any hobbies then proceed to sexualise them in some deformed digital way, then proceed to complain irl that they can’t get a gf cause women emancipated themselves and refuse to look or act like their online waifus. It’s a full circlejerk.
i can get men’s only spaces, but… literally everything else on that list is a broad mainstream cultural phenomenon. it would be literally impossible to prevent half the world access to it.
what are you gonna say next? “men had planet earth – women invaded”
I hate it when people with right wing ideologies try and use certain phrases like “safe space” like their ideologies are not safe in any fashion. They’re a danger to people from their inception.
‘Men can’t have a safe space’ asjshsj I don’t see a BoyGamer subreddit? MaleGaming? ManGames? We have a large af girl gaming subreddit because girls NEED a dedicated space. We don’t take the male gaming spaces. We don’t even want them. Put me in a male gaming space and I will be RUNNING tf out of there before I even can think a single thought.
Excuse me? They “let men be themselves”??? Oh I’m absolutely sure they were severely uncomfortable with men’s behaviour, they just knew they couldn’t speak up about it without being harassed AND forcibly shunned out of the community. Because god forbid men have to behave themselves and refrain from making the most dehumanizing comments about women. God forbid men have to treat other people like human beings.
Why do they not make their own manly macho franschises with zero and non women characters and only manly men being manly with eachoter then? Somehow they need to include women in their stories anyways?! Hmm.
But yeah, the idea that women havent been part of those ‘hobbies’ is ridiculous *smh*
“I am not presently capable of examining my opinions without becoming defensive and emotional. I have been tricked into believing that these opinions are my own, rather than provided by the grifters who have made it their livelihood to sell me this toxicity. I do not know that I have been deceived, and I will vehemently deny it should you point it out.
It is difficult for me to think for myself. Indeed, it is far more comfortable for me to repeat the opinions of others as if they were my own; that way, I might be accepted by them. I don’t realize it, but I am desperate for approval, and I honestly believe that this is the only way I can achieve the belonging I so desperately crave.
I have big feelings that I don’t understand, and not unlike a toddler, I lack the ability to constructively engage with these emotions. It is easier to reframe these difficult emotions as the result of some evil that has been done to me by someone who wishes me harm. It is *their* fault; never my own. Without an enemy, I would be forced to confront my failings as my own.
As such, I will make my issues into *your* problem. By doing so, I will satisfy my cognitive dissonance, as well as my own desperate need for belonging.
One day, I may grow into the emotional maturity required to evaluate my laundry list of character defects, but today will not be that day. Instead, I throw another temper tantrum: I will shout into the void in the hope that my complex feelings will be validated.”
The primary comic book reader was a woman/girl in the golden era, until some men decided it was corrupting the children and the weakminded in 1950’s, it wasn’t christian enough. Women reads more, not just novels, than men in general. We are slowly getting back to normal by this point.
women have always been a part of these spaces but now we’re more outspoken about it and we don’t tolerate their bullshit. that incel is just mad we don’t let him be a piece of shit anymore
Basicaly its “I found a group of guys who enjoy these things. I felt less loney, but now women are in these circles more prominently and it makes me uncomfortable.”
It means that this boy running around in man pants got his fee-fees hurt because he can’t be a misogynistic, sexist piece of shit without repercussions anymore, because insecure, pathetic little whiners don’t feel tall unless they’re standing on top of someone else. Some people think the true test of masculinity is measured by dominating others.
i love how he says “men had video games- women invaded” lol like last i checked most gamers are women not men, we just happen to play single players games mostly
also id love to see his d&d group if one woman walked in lol
One of the first Sci fi writers was a woman (Mary Shelly), so technically it started with women.
Comic books didn’t start in the 40s. Not even the Victorian age. They started as early as the Roman’s. So he knows who those authors were?
They could have written star wars differently and made Lei a strong lead who did her own rescuing. If they wanted it to be “just for men” they would have written her as the “princess always in need”
The only reason video games became a boys thing at first? Because the game companies just chose boys over girls. His history of video games is weak (it’s easy to find info).
D&D…..Not the only ttrpg in the 70s. He doesn’t know Linda Mosca and SPI does he?
The only thing he has is men’s clubs aka sausage fests. He imagines we have invaded them. He needs to sit down and go suck on a beer so soothe his fragile boy ego.
Edit… hopefully he is aware WOMEN were the inventors of beer….
Ah so it’s basically just a moment of: mad because there’s a bigger audience now and they have differing opinions from them and they can’t stand being the minority
Like nobody is stopping you from being yourself, I can only assume they’re mad bcs they voice their view in a “either youre with me or against me” type of way
Never forget that X rewards engagement, no matter what it is, which is why the platform has turned into such a cesspit. You can easily get more engagement with rage bait and that’s why these losers post the worst takes just so other people share and comment their disagreement.
I love Bluesky, where the block button is everyone’s best friend.
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hobbies can’t be gatekept by certain groups. men are welcome to take up knitting or baking even though they’re traditionally feminine hobbies. and if women liking the same hobby as you automatically makes you dislike it— it just means you hate women.
Women have always been apart of those communities 🙄
You know what would be a good safe space for these men? Therapy
“I can’t sexualise women in these spaces now because there’s women here.”
What he also means, is women joined the spaces now society has started judging people less. A lot of hobbies have become less gendered because a lot of people have the mindset of just letting people be themselves.
He’s not one of them.
Wait, we have *male minions?* Where do I get those!? I want to conquer the world already!
Weren’t some of the first sci-fi and fan conventions organized and run by women?
Lol, when they push out women from any hobbies then proceed to sexualise them in some deformed digital way, then proceed to complain irl that they can’t get a gf cause women emancipated themselves and refuse to look or act like their online waifus. It’s a full circlejerk.
i can get men’s only spaces, but… literally everything else on that list is a broad mainstream cultural phenomenon. it would be literally impossible to prevent half the world access to it.
what are you gonna say next? “men had planet earth – women invaded”
let’s keep it up girls! misogynists don’t deserve to enjoy anything in life
A woman invented sci fi 😂
I hate it when people with right wing ideologies try and use certain phrases like “safe space” like their ideologies are not safe in any fashion. They’re a danger to people from their inception.
‘Men can’t have a safe space’ asjshsj I don’t see a BoyGamer subreddit? MaleGaming? ManGames? We have a large af girl gaming subreddit because girls NEED a dedicated space. We don’t take the male gaming spaces. We don’t even want them. Put me in a male gaming space and I will be RUNNING tf out of there before I even can think a single thought.
This is peak incel.
Twitter discourse, (this dude’s) opinion discarded.
Seriously though, gatekeepers are pointless to listen to 999 times of 1000.
Excuse me? They “let men be themselves”??? Oh I’m absolutely sure they were severely uncomfortable with men’s behaviour, they just knew they couldn’t speak up about it without being harassed AND forcibly shunned out of the community. Because god forbid men have to behave themselves and refrain from making the most dehumanizing comments about women. God forbid men have to treat other people like human beings.
Edit: fixed spelling mistake
Some men want a place to be horrible disgusting people without being judged by the victims of their mindset/words/action.
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Why do they not make their own manly macho franschises with zero and non women characters and only manly men being manly with eachoter then? Somehow they need to include women in their stories anyways?! Hmm.
But yeah, the idea that women havent been part of those ‘hobbies’ is ridiculous *smh*
Translation:
“I am not presently capable of examining my opinions without becoming defensive and emotional. I have been tricked into believing that these opinions are my own, rather than provided by the grifters who have made it their livelihood to sell me this toxicity. I do not know that I have been deceived, and I will vehemently deny it should you point it out.
It is difficult for me to think for myself. Indeed, it is far more comfortable for me to repeat the opinions of others as if they were my own; that way, I might be accepted by them. I don’t realize it, but I am desperate for approval, and I honestly believe that this is the only way I can achieve the belonging I so desperately crave.
I have big feelings that I don’t understand, and not unlike a toddler, I lack the ability to constructively engage with these emotions. It is easier to reframe these difficult emotions as the result of some evil that has been done to me by someone who wishes me harm. It is *their* fault; never my own. Without an enemy, I would be forced to confront my failings as my own.
As such, I will make my issues into *your* problem. By doing so, I will satisfy my cognitive dissonance, as well as my own desperate need for belonging.
One day, I may grow into the emotional maturity required to evaluate my laundry list of character defects, but today will not be that day. Instead, I throw another temper tantrum: I will shout into the void in the hope that my complex feelings will be validated.”
He hates women.
How does women partaking in and enjoying things ruin them? 🤔
The primary comic book reader was a woman/girl in the golden era, until some men decided it was corrupting the children and the weakminded in 1950’s, it wasn’t christian enough. Women reads more, not just novels, than men in general. We are slowly getting back to normal by this point.
From a guy: He’s mad he has fewer ‘safe spaces’ to be a piece of shit, particularly about women.
He makes it sound like women are the Fire Nation.
Every accusation from them is a confession.
(A lot of) women were the first programmers – men invaded.
women have always been a part of these spaces but now we’re more outspoken about it and we don’t tolerate their bullshit. that incel is just mad we don’t let him be a piece of shit anymore
Typcial gatekeeping.
Basicaly its “I found a group of guys who enjoy these things. I felt less loney, but now women are in these circles more prominently and it makes me uncomfortable.”
Just typical misogynistic gatekeeper shit, block him and move on
Someone got checked by a woman for their behaviour in a space where previously other men allowed it.
Now it’s all women’s fault and definitely not a them problem. /s
Just some incel foaming at their mouth. Completely ignorable.
It means that this boy running around in man pants got his fee-fees hurt because he can’t be a misogynistic, sexist piece of shit without repercussions anymore, because insecure, pathetic little whiners don’t feel tall unless they’re standing on top of someone else. Some people think the true test of masculinity is measured by dominating others.
i love how he says “men had video games- women invaded” lol like last i checked most gamers are women not men, we just happen to play single players games mostly
also id love to see his d&d group if one woman walked in lol
“oh god, they’re invading again!”
Ehhhhhh gate keeping hobbies?
Yes men have nothing sorry lads but we WILL invade ffs
Women had peaceful life, men invaded.
As a woman, I love invading male spaces! It’s my favorite pastime
Urgh. I barfed all over my keyboard.
And my game setup.
And my dark graphic novels.
And my sci-fi books.
And my role play dice collection.
BTW I’m close to 50 and I do all this since I’m old enough to read and computers were cheap enough to be bought by households.
Women have invaded these spaces my ass.
It means they’re babies who are crying because women do those things too and do them better.
Man who doesn’t know history
One of the first Sci fi writers was a woman (Mary Shelly), so technically it started with women.
Comic books didn’t start in the 40s. Not even the Victorian age. They started as early as the Roman’s. So he knows who those authors were?
They could have written star wars differently and made Lei a strong lead who did her own rescuing. If they wanted it to be “just for men” they would have written her as the “princess always in need”
The only reason video games became a boys thing at first? Because the game companies just chose boys over girls. His history of video games is weak (it’s easy to find info).
D&D…..Not the only ttrpg in the 70s. He doesn’t know Linda Mosca and SPI does he?
The only thing he has is men’s clubs aka sausage fests. He imagines we have invaded them. He needs to sit down and go suck on a beer so soothe his fragile boy ego.
Edit… hopefully he is aware WOMEN were the inventors of beer….
Ah so it’s basically just a moment of: mad because there’s a bigger audience now and they have differing opinions from them and they can’t stand being the minority
Like nobody is stopping you from being yourself, I can only assume they’re mad bcs they voice their view in a “either youre with me or against me” type of way
Never forget that X rewards engagement, no matter what it is, which is why the platform has turned into such a cesspit. You can easily get more engagement with rage bait and that’s why these losers post the worst takes just so other people share and comment their disagreement.
I love Bluesky, where the block button is everyone’s best friend.
It’s a nonsensically written tantrum based on pure rage. Just say ya like men, it’s totally okay to be gay ✌️