Ex-gf here! Someone replied to me saying the post made it to this sub, and that this might be a nice place to look for other gamer girls!❤
As an aside, I’ve noticed a few people throughout this whole ordeal who think that this is a made up situation. I haven’t really replied to anyone with this view in any sub, but I just wanna urge people to consider the possibility that someone out there going through a lot of stress that didn’t initially ask to be publicized is able to see their comments like this. I wish my life weren’t a reality too. I know that no one here knows me, and of course folks will walk away with their own perspectives, but please be considerate. This has all been a lot to handle.
Thank you to the people who feel my hurt with me.❤
“I decided to step in and have her cut back,” The wording clearly indicates controlling behavior where he feels like an authority figure in a relationship that should be equal.
“Her little save files, her little characters.” Diminishing her interests as nonmeaningful.
Funniest thing is the jerk still thinks the problem was that she doesn’t have the “little characters”, and not the fact he crossed a boundary without communicating with her
If someone compromised my 9 year FFXIV account you would see me on the evening news. The amount of cruelty and spite in this is just…
“It’s not even a goaled game” I bet you she spent in-game years building up an entire neighborhood, expanding and decorating houses as she earned money, generations of families she watched grow from baby to the grave.
Not once in that story does “I tried talking to her-“ come up.
He went straight to destroying her things because they didn’t have value to him.
If he saw her as an equal, he could have attempted to tell her that he wanted to spend more time with her. But instead he felt entitled to that time, and punished her for spending it on other things.
I would write it off as rage bait if I didn’t know so many stories from other women of guys being this entitled/oblivious
I found the original post and now I’m especially pissed. The gf responded in the comments and I looked through her post history. She was already going through it for a LONG time, she was a minor and he was a legal adult when they got together, and he does this controlling shit to her as the cherry on top of the shit cake. I’m glad she left him and I hope things get better for her.
But deleting someone’s files without permission. Yes.
# 🤬
I’m usually paranoid a software issue, corrupted save file, would delete my Minecraft world. If someone went and deleted it and my backups without my permission and then has the audacity to say: “You still have the game, just remake it”.
I would be like if some random person and went deleted all your vacation photos and that random person tells you: “Don’t worry, you still have your camera, just go back and retake the photos”
Omg i checked out that sub and had to leave very fast at it was making me rage
If some insecure shrimp dicked motherfucker deleted my sims saves I would literally throw his xbox out the window, piss on his clothes and slice his car tyre.
My ex was like this…he complained about how I preferred playing games to spending time with him ALL THE TIME! I was 21, going to uni 5 days a week, working 20 hours on the weekends and volunteering another 10 hours a week in a local primary school to get teaching experience, so I didn’t feel like hopping on a bus for 25 minutes at 9pm (essentially a glorified booty call, since all he wanted to do was to have sex) after being on the go for 14 hours to go see him and instead just wanted to relax with Sims or Zelda or Pokemon for an hour before going to bed and waking up at 6am. He, of course, never came to see me ONCE because ‘he was tired’ from uni, even though he lived in dorms and did not have a job. I broke things off after 3 months when he not-so-jokingly mentioned wanting to ‘accidentally’ drop my laptop (which I also used for uni) and 3DS and break them so I would pay more attention to him.
I am now married to another gamer who understands the sanctity of one’s save files, helped build my first proper gaming PC, and loves to do Discord nights where we play games in our respective home offices while talking about our days and flirting outrageously with each other. I seriously hope the girl in the post drops the raging asshole of a BF like a hot potato and finds someone who actually respects her! ❤️
to be honest I’m more surprised a 24 year old guy is this clueless about video games. like.. he calls them “little save files” which comes across as something a 60 year old would say or something
I hope the girlfriend is now tye Ex and this sorry excuse for a human being never knows the touch of another human being, all their seats are warm and moist and that all their bacon burns forever more 🤬
honestly a 20 year old is too tiny for a 24 year old, the stupid man was talking about “adult interests”. You want adult interests?????, how about you don’t date a tiny adult who’s barely an adult and expect her to be a 45 year old woman.
I’m speechless. Like, if this ever happened to me for a game that old I don’t think I would talk to ANYONE for like a month. I’m getting second-hand infuriated.
He deserves to be sent to a swimming pool and then have the ladder removed
A save file from 2017…
So a 7 year old save with an average of 2 hours a day….
God….. holy shit…. over 5100 hours….
On a SINGLE game file…
Bro should be happy he still has his finhers!!!
Ex-gf here! Someone replied to me saying the post made it to this sub, and that this might be a nice place to look for other gamer girls!❤
As an aside, I’ve noticed a few people throughout this whole ordeal who think that this is a made up situation. I haven’t really replied to anyone with this view in any sub, but I just wanna urge people to consider the possibility that someone out there going through a lot of stress that didn’t initially ask to be publicized is able to see their comments like this. I wish my life weren’t a reality too. I know that no one here knows me, and of course folks will walk away with their own perspectives, but please be considerate. This has all been a lot to handle.
Thank you to the people who feel my hurt with me.❤
The girl this happened to replied and said she left him so that’s a nice and appropriate ending
“I decided to step in and have her cut back,” The wording clearly indicates controlling behavior where he feels like an authority figure in a relationship that should be equal.
“Her little save files, her little characters.” Diminishing her interests as nonmeaningful.
The guy sucks.
If that happened to me let’s just say I’m going to end up in a prison cell.
Rule number one in a gamer relationship whether romantic or platonic:
“Do NOT touch someone’s save files”
I once accidentally overwrote one of my brother’s save files back when we shared games and PCs…he was not happy 😂
I read in another comment that she left him, good 👍, you don’t need someone that immature
https://preview.redd.it/ejv0h500qdwc1.jpeg?width=531&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=359465adfc86b9c51c6cd9590b3e07b78821dc48
Funniest thing is the jerk still thinks the problem was that she doesn’t have the “little characters”, and not the fact he crossed a boundary without communicating with her
If someone compromised my 9 year FFXIV account you would see me on the evening news. The amount of cruelty and spite in this is just…
“It’s not even a goaled game” I bet you she spent in-game years building up an entire neighborhood, expanding and decorating houses as she earned money, generations of families she watched grow from baby to the grave.
*Insert ‘He Had it Coming’ from Chicago here*
Not once in that story does “I tried talking to her-“ come up.
He went straight to destroying her things because they didn’t have value to him.
If he saw her as an equal, he could have attempted to tell her that he wanted to spend more time with her. But instead he felt entitled to that time, and punished her for spending it on other things.
I would write it off as rage bait if I didn’t know so many stories from other women of guys being this entitled/oblivious
I found the original post and now I’m especially pissed. The gf responded in the comments and I looked through her post history. She was already going through it for a LONG time, she was a minor and he was a legal adult when they got together, and he does this controlling shit to her as the cherry on top of the shit cake. I’m glad she left him and I hope things get better for her.
“I ruined something my partner cherished, am **I** the asshole here?”
Man got fucking jealous at a videogame, what a manchild.
He’s even worse than his initial post, a reply from his ex 😭
https://preview.redd.it/a4vf1evdcgwc1.jpeg?width=814&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e201099ea7f418946d3c9a6ffeb8ecb374a30854
Legal grounds for murder as far as I’m concerned.
Ohhhh boy.
I would dump this fucker on the spot.
Have a conversation about it, nope.
But deleting someone’s files without permission. Yes.
# 🤬
I’m usually paranoid a software issue, corrupted save file, would delete my Minecraft world. If someone went and deleted it and my backups without my permission and then has the audacity to say: “You still have the game, just remake it”.
I would be like if some random person and went deleted all your vacation photos and that random person tells you: “Don’t worry, you still have your camera, just go back and retake the photos”
# 🤬
Omg i checked out that sub and had to leave very fast at it was making me rage
If some insecure shrimp dicked motherfucker deleted my sims saves I would literally throw his xbox out the window, piss on his clothes and slice his car tyre.
Just dont go there bro…just do not go there.
https://preview.redd.it/ntygx9bycewc1.png?width=1150&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b4f708186cf4422966cc714c50e49b17b74ef8cd
My ex was like this…he complained about how I preferred playing games to spending time with him ALL THE TIME! I was 21, going to uni 5 days a week, working 20 hours on the weekends and volunteering another 10 hours a week in a local primary school to get teaching experience, so I didn’t feel like hopping on a bus for 25 minutes at 9pm (essentially a glorified booty call, since all he wanted to do was to have sex) after being on the go for 14 hours to go see him and instead just wanted to relax with Sims or Zelda or Pokemon for an hour before going to bed and waking up at 6am. He, of course, never came to see me ONCE because ‘he was tired’ from uni, even though he lived in dorms and did not have a job. I broke things off after 3 months when he not-so-jokingly mentioned wanting to ‘accidentally’ drop my laptop (which I also used for uni) and 3DS and break them so I would pay more attention to him.
I am now married to another gamer who understands the sanctity of one’s save files, helped build my first proper gaming PC, and loves to do Discord nights where we play games in our respective home offices while talking about our days and flirting outrageously with each other. I seriously hope the girl in the post drops the raging asshole of a BF like a hot potato and finds someone who actually respects her! ❤️
to be honest I’m more surprised a 24 year old guy is this clueless about video games. like.. he calls them “little save files” which comes across as something a 60 year old would say or something
Me hoping for this to be a troll but knowing deep down its not 🙁
I’ll kill that guy if that happens to me. Wtf.
Hands off my sims saves and my 80gb cc folder 🔪
I agree it’s ragebait but still the overall premise is infuriating as hell. Like imagine someone doing all this instead of communicating 💀
He could’ve like… talked to her about it. But yeah if this is real, I hope she left the loser.
What the cinnamon toast fuck?
I hope the girlfriend is now tye Ex and this sorry excuse for a human being never knows the touch of another human being, all their seats are warm and moist and that all their bacon burns forever more 🤬
I hate him
Wow if someone did that to me I’d be hella pissed
Holy shit what a colossal asshole
Starting with she got with him when she was 12 and he 16
lol the post was deleted by reddits filter and his account is banned.
honestly a 20 year old is too tiny for a 24 year old, the stupid man was talking about “adult interests”. You want adult interests?????, how about you don’t date a tiny adult who’s barely an adult and expect her to be a 45 year old woman.
I would literally murder someone for deleting my Sims save files.
I’m speechless. Like, if this ever happened to me for a game that old I don’t think I would talk to ANYONE for like a month. I’m getting second-hand infuriated.